Bloop
Sr Member
If I was an "amusing little distraction" you wouldn't have felt compelled to reply.You have reached many disingenuous conclusions based on very little information.
You have also managed to contradict yourself, by making several insulting statements, while absolving yourself by claiming to be empathetic.
I don't cry during a fictitious movie, and you feel the need to mock and ridicule. It's an interesting point of view you have, revealing far more about yourself, than I did about myself.
Again. Life has more than enough sorrow to shed tears over. A fictitious movie does not qualify for me.
But I suppose per your own words, if that makes me: "too cool", a "tough guy", then your feeling sorry for me is a passive aggressive way of condemnation, not sympathy.
dascoyne suggested that it was impossible not to get choked up. I responded directly to THAT about how I don't cry over movies. In no part of my response did I state that his emotions were invalid, or irrelevant.
Again, it's a movie. I don't cry over movies. If you feel so moved by such things, If a movie makes you tear up and cry uncontrollably, If you feel so moved that you can't stop thinking about a scene, I will not mock you for that.
But you will mock others based on one statement. YOU will take it upon yourself to judge a persons entire psyche based on one statement.
To be clear. You don't feel sorry for me. If you did, you wouldn't have written what you did. People who feel sorry for others, don't do that. Their approach is to try to understand that person. You talk about validation, yet you try to invalidate my point that I made that movies aren't something that I cry over. I didn't state no one else shouldn't. You say I lack empathy? The first sentence I wrote was that it was NICE that cap got to live his life. I didn't say: that was stupid, or dascoyne is a big cry baby.
Now do I feel sorry for you, or even anger? Not a chance in hell. People like you are just amusing little distractions that I'll forget about when I select the post reply key.
I can pity you and still take you to task for your comments. Nothing I said contradicts my comments. And I can judge you on your comments, because you chose to make them on this open forum. I can feel sorry for a person who's claims show no empathy or emotion, but I will call you out for your openly dismissive comments toward anyone that has an emotional response to a movie, or any event in their own life. Just because you didn't call anyone a name doesn't mean we can't infer the intent of your message. You made the choice to reply to someone that had an emotional response to the movie. You chose to put them down (and anyone else for that matter) that is moved by a work of fiction, or even the majority of life (again, your words: "It was nice that he got a life. But defy not to get choked up? Meh. It's a movie.I don't get choked up or cry for movies. That's what real life is for (though rarely)"). That comment can't be taken any other way than to put down anyone that has any emotional reaction to not only a movie, but most of their life experiences. If you didn't want to draw the ire of other people, then you shouldn't have posted what you did.
So, I will still pity the person you are, based on your own comments, and will find your statements to be unnecessarily cruel towards others. Your choice was made when you commented. If you didn't want to be called out for it, you shouldn't have posted what you did.