Reading through the thread I think I'm in a minority here. Most are saying you were pleasantly surprised...for me it was worse than I could have imagined.
I'm not even sure where to begin. I'll start with positives:
I actually still like the cast mostly...although I no longer like NuSpock. Might not be his fault...could be the script, but Emo Spock doesn't really work. Overall, still a decent cast.
Loved the special effects, loved the new warp look. LOVED how cool the starbase looked.
negatives (You should stop reading if you liked it. This is criticism and it'll just annoy you. Move along).
I'll start with: Star Trek was once the bastion of Science fiction emphasis on science...back in the day they consulted with physicists and NASA...now...Marvel comics are probably more grounded.
But a bigger problem: there was almost no fun. We got a couple one liners from Bones and Spock, or one here and there from Scotty, but it was always a line or two surrounded by ages of 'Oh God everything sucks!" One of the funniest lines was spoiled by the trailer (That's just typical) and even that one was bookended with I broke up with my girl friend, I'm leaving Starfleet, I have a responsibility to my species, and weirdly, for a Vulcan, I wear my emotions on my sleeve more than ANY of the humans in Starfleet..now a funny line!...and it's over...we're surrounded, they have everyone, the ship is gone...doom...gloom...
No laughs, and the only character growth was the eternally stale "I'm sad and gonna leave...action happened! Now I'm happy and gonna stay!" which TWO leads went through over the course of the move...and BTW was also spoiled by the trailer.
Lots of car(ship) chases including through long hamster tunnel that is possibly among the most nonsensical things ever built. Although I DID get a chuckle that...even within the ridiculous tunnel that will need to be rebuilt when starships get bigger...once parked, they still had to resort to the elegantly simple solution of "A tube that connects to the ships door" which is actually all you really needed in the first place. (Although to be fair, even in previous incarnations Starfleet doesn't really learn that lesson until they inherit a station from Cardasians and finally realize "Oh...we really didn't need to build that huge totally unnecessary thing..just a simple dock will work.")
And of course we got reminded that rank in the nutrek universe is as clearly defined as Calvinball...when the Commodore offered to promote the Captain to Vice Admiral (so it's Cadet - Captain - Three Star Admiral - One Star Admiral ....and other ranks exist in case you're not plucky enough to go strait to Captain just yet)
And the villain...by the time we found out what his motivation was I didn't really care anymore, but even if I had...it didn't make any sense. No one rescued him, and also Starfleet didn't have enough struggle...first of all: no one knew he was there, which is silly since apparently he was able to tap into federation communications. Second...Starfleets practically done nothing but struggle...we had a whole series about the first part of it, and the second part, beginning with the loss of a ship so crucial that now everything is named after it, ended up with Vulcan being destroyed...then Khan came back and attacked Earth.
Also...kind of a big lucky coincidence that small lost piece that no one else recognizes but has been lost somewhere in the Galaxy for a century ends up on the Enterprise, having been passed on by two alien cultures (one offering it for peace, one rejecting it) JUST as it ends up at the nearest starbase RIGHT when he has access to a ship and a hostage to send to lure it into the nebula, AND is the only viable ship that base will send at that time.
That's a bit like planning a kidnap by hoping that your mark wins the lottery, buys a limo, drinks too much champagne riding around in it, wants McDonalds to soak the booze, so you start building a trap for him at the McDonalds drive through. Kind of a weird amount of bizarre things have to happen in just the right way for this plan to ever really work out right?
In the end, I really liked the time lapse and was glad they included it. It was a VERY cool shot and I liked seeing it now, since there's no longer any chance of me watching another film set in this dumpster fire of a universe.