Eveningarwen
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Also I'm eating cheetos and I so don't care. I'm loving every artificial fattening bite!
Wow... that is Tia right there! :eek
Outstanding.
I'm curious, how many of you ladies are also moms?
My sons are 14 and 10 (11 in a month) and over the past several years I've had to pull out of costuming and convention going to focus on them.
This year we decided to go to Dcon again and tonight I realized anew why I stopped! Trying to juggle the costume building and convention preparation with school starting, their drama and just every day household stuff brought back all that stress I remember nearly did me in.
So, if you're a mom - how do you manage and juggle your hobby and... life?
Edit--forum etiquette-wise, is it weird to start a build thread for a costume you're making for someone else? I've seen a number of threads here chronicling a costume that someone else is making for the poster, but not as many vice versa, though I could just be missing them.
Just curious.... would you happen to be a Chiver too KCandCO? KCCO or is it just a coincidence
There needs to be a law that says we don't have to work our day jobs (but still get paid) 2 weeks out from con! A costume holiday!
You know what it is...I don't even mind the "she's fat" or "she's fugly" comments that get me. I mean, yeah they're mean and pathetic but it's usually the comments that define you as a person that get me. The "she's a ****" or "she's sexist". Also the comments of "they should hire professional models". It shows such a lack of intelligence on their part because they obviously know nothing about me or my site when they say stuff like that. They're judging everything based on one photo and not on my business as a whole. Or they don't take the time to sit back and think "Hmmm it's the same girl in every photo so it must be the person who owns the business or possibly a family member or friend. Maybe they can't afford pro models".
Same thing with you Kristen. When someone calls you the "C" word or says you're an animal abuser without any of the facts of who you are as a person it becomes infuriating becomes they aren't making an opinion about you physically but are defaming your character to others. Again, I know it's going to happen and you have to just let it roll off your back but that is where my anger comes from. That element of who are you to make that comment when you have no clue who I am? Make all the fat and ugly comments you want but leave the opinions as to my character to yourself. Or at least be able to claim that you've met me once before forming an opinion.