Todays update. Parts continue to sit atop the server. There are a number of smaller bits (the trigger housing, front of the sight, rear of the site) that now feel OK. The sight itself is feeling better. Not perfect, but much better. Those front/rear parts, interestingly (like above) were sprayed again just one day ago and feel OK, giving credence to the idea that it might be something to do with the ASA/paint layer interface that is causing the tackiness.
So. For now, I'm just going to leave. there's little I can do from here.
I might as well practice some patience, and see where things get to over the next week.
A spraypainter mate of mine did recommend an alternate primer (for those interested:
PPG ONECHOICE EPOXY RUB THRU PRIMER AEROSOL). I'd used it in the past and it worked great. Can't do anything about it now, as I'm a bit beyond that, but I do wish that my previous self had just gone and spent the extra $4 per can on that stuff. I know it works. OK. Sure. I can't know it'd fix my current issue, but I'm sure looking at it with a "ooo ... look.... primer for Adults!"