So after 5 face washes, a mini break down, and a whole bottle of moisturizer later...
This is what I've come to the conclusion of...
I need an airbrush!
Until then all of your tips and hints and info really helped me a lot and this is what I ended up doing that worked.
First I did the super moisturizer combo with the light photofinish (i did forget to spray the final seal on after I let that stuff soak in... I was totally and completely frustrated at this point...)
Then I decided after many tries with the Mehron to try the cream foundation again. I got this to go on very evenly and it didn't look dry or emphasize (as much) my pores or any other scaring, etc... this was good!
Then I powdered that and sealed it with the final seal and moved onto the black. I used the Mehron for this and it worked very well (DO NOT get this stuff in your eye! :eek) I left a section around my eye that I filled in with the HIP smudge pot worked very well and you can get that in your eye without burning...I sealed this again with the final seal
Then I did my lipstick and the "Make-up" for the white eye: some shimmery white shadow, eye liner, mascara and a streak of red so far so good... sealed all this and this is what it looked like!
much better!
If you look at my neck though I used the Mehron on that and I just couldn't get it to not streak on my face and neck. On my hands and the black on my eye were great! I think my skin is just against costuming in general...
And this is most of the rest the costume!
Sorry for the bad bathroom myspace shots there's no other good lighting in the house and as for smiling black lipstick is not very forgiving on teeth, whitening strips it is for the next few weeks!
(and yes I'm going to dye my hair so you don't see the roots, paint my nails black, and put make-up on my hands)
Thanks for all your help, you guys saved me so much time!

Tell me what you think or if there's anything you would do differently!