Man you have thin skin. All he said was that considering you seem to have worked pretty hard to get more accurate replicas of several other items, you should get a more accurate hat. I don't know what your hat looks like since you deleted it, but he never said it was ugly or horrible or ghastly or anything like that. Lighten up, jeez.
Not all my items are "accurate" or "expensive". I started this "hobby" as a decorative design for my home theater, originally not as a collector. My "Han Solo" blaster is 3D printed and painted, for example. A real collector would want a build of the actual gun parts. A real collector would want Indy's actual guns, even if they're $1000+. I wanted a nice display. I did get carried away with accuracy on some items, but some items (e.g. the Maltese Falcon Touch Tip lighter) are ONLY available as the real historical item so if you want one, it's $800 in mint condition. I didn't need mint, but it's what came up and I waited six months to find one. It was hard to pass up RM's Cross of Coranado seeing it was available. My grail isn't accurate. My gun isn't accurate. Until recently, my urn wasn't very accurate, but they looked good on display.
Why did it bother me? Imagine you bought a car you liked (say a Subaru WRX) and felt all happy about it and wanted to show it to your friends and the first comment you see is, "Gee, considering how nice a house you have, you should have at least gotten a Mercedes Benz now that they're offering them at 20% off." I was in a foul mood the rest of the evening. I've got a lot of physical pain problems right now and the last thing I needed to cheer me up was a "What a POS you bought" type message. Guess what? I don't come here to read negative posts about movie props. There's a lot of people with a lot of inaccurate props and they like them and/or can't afford a better version or can't justify spending the money on it. How long do you think they'll stick around if people insult what they bought or ignore them entirely? The answer is not very.
Thin skinned? In my humble opinion, I think it was just a flat out rude thing to say to someone (see above car example). I asked a half dozen people at work what they thought and if I overreacted and they all asked me why I'd even converse with someone like that. I wonder that myself.
The bottom line is even
if you hate the car or the hat or the whatever, you can be polite about it. "That's not the hat I would have bought, but I hope you enjoy it." or "That's not bad for the price. Why didn't you get a truly accurate one?" I even said it wasn't accurate. It's not a show hat. It's to actually wear so I needed one that actually fit my head and spending $300+ on a hand-crafted otherwise accurate one seemed ridiculous when it still wouldn't be accurate and I don't have an eye for clothing (that hat he posted isn't accurate either). There's nowhere currently to display one in my home theater right now so why buy one for show that's not going to be on display? The hat in question he recommended isn't accurate either so it really comes down to how accurate do you want it and how much are you willing to pay to get it. If I wanted a truly accurate piece for a museum-like display, I would have ordered it from Penman Hats (i.e AdventureBilt) for $350+ and I would have ordered one that was the same size to fit Harrison Ford's head, not mine. I don't place the same value on clothing pieces as 'artifacts' especially when they made a couple dozen whips (some out of kip, most from kangaroo) and dozens of hats (at least three different versions not counting the grey dress hats).
How far off is this hat I have? It's larger to fit my head yet the specs aren't so far off as you might think.
Raiders Hat vs. Mine
Size: 7.25" (LG) - Mine 7.75" (XXL)
Crown: 2.5" - My Crown 2.5"
Brim: 2.75" front, 2.63 side - Mine 3" front, 2.8" side
Ribbon size: 1.5" - Mine 1.5"
Material:
Sable - Mine
Wool
Ribbon Color: "Dark Brown Galoot" - Mine: "Dark Chocolate"
The ribbon color is an item of high contention it seems. (see:
The Raiders Fedora Ribbon Discussion Thread and Photo by neutronbomb_photos) as it apparently changes greatly in different lighting, but the "SJ" one looks hella similar to mine with the "purple sheen" shown in brighter lighting. I'd call it "chocolate" but I'm no color expert.
Hell look at the arguments about the ribbon color and quality (
Defending AB & Penman Hats' Raiders Ribbon)
Most photos are taken from above or head-on. This is the closest view I could find from a movie (even though the temple of doom one is actually taller than the Raiders one. Maybe I have no eye for clothing (I'm NOT a snappy dresser and routinely wear black polo shirts), but the overall hat doesn't look "that" far off to my eyes and it actually fits my head quite well, perhaps even slightly too loose (unlike my Bogie/Toht) hat that's only XL and a bit too tight to want to stay on in high winds.