Exactly.. you tell me.. how many years from the time when Luke discovers the Force in ANH and ROTJ? And he was NOT a total bada$$ in ROTJ!!
He got his butt handed to him by the Emperor, and barely defeated or deflated a cripple old Vadar.. His dad had to step up and save them all.
He wasnt Force pulling sabers just minutes after learning about the force.
Like I said.. Maybe females are stronger... maybe Leia could have been the real bad *****.
I dont care male or female. I just want good characters... good scripting and a god story.
I think you're forgetting a lot about the OT, though.
Luke was, by his own statements, bullseying womprats in his T-16, which is apparently some amazing task. He trains with Ben for a few hours on the Falcon (being generous here), and is able to block blaster bolts blind, and then use the Force to take out the Death Star in a "one in a million" shot. He gets no training at all after that, and is able to pull his sabre from the snowbank in ESB. He gets a couple of days (Maybe? It's not entirely clear, given the way that hyperspace travel moves at the "speed of plot" in these movies) training with Yoda and is able to lift rocks, stand on one hand, have Force visions of the future, and almost lift his ship out of the swamp on Dagobah, then duel Vader and make Force leaps out of the carbon freezing unit to the rafters above, and finally telepathically call to Leia.
He then gets zero training from that point forward, and yet, between ESB and ROTJ is now a total badass warrior on the edge of being a Jedi, who can Force choke guards, call his lightsabre to him after R2 shoots it out to him, flip and launch himself from one sail barge to another, block blaster fire, duel Vader to a win and almost kill him but only after he gains control of himself, and survive the Emperor's lighting attack. Again, all with
zero additional training.
My point is that Luke gets very, very little training, and is amazingly capable.
You can go back farther and look at Anakin, who is the only human capable of pod racing and -- at 9 years old -- wins the Boonta Eve Classic. Zero training. Certainly he becomes a lot more powerful after having been trained, but arguably his training (and the strictures of the Jedi Order) were what led him to becoming Darth Vader in the first place.
Basically, latent Force ability can manifest very early on, and requires no training to
use, although training may teach you to
control your abilities
better. I don't see it as having anything to do with male vs. female. Rey is able to do this stuff the same way Luke was able to as a farm boy. Arguably, she's more powerful because she, like Ben, is sort of the "champion" of one side of the Force. (Assuming that description wasn't bunk that Snoke made up.)
I don't see it as pandering or "forcing" things at all, really. Like, basically, I don't bat an eye at Luke being able to do what he does in any of the movies, so why should it be surprising to me that Rey can do what she does? Granted, she does more in the first movie than Luke did, but Luke didn't really
need to use his Force powers in the first movie. He didn't duel anyone, and basically only lit his sabre in Obi-Wan's house the first time he swung it around, and on the Falcon while learning about the Force. And then in ESB, he can pull the lightsabre to him. No reason he couldn't have done that before.
I dunno. Part of me thinks that folks are treating some of this stuff like one of the old Jedi Knight video games, and thinking of it in terms of "But your character can't do that until Level 5 at the earliest! How the hell is this possible?!" It was always possible.
Bear in mind that at one point in time (I believe between ANH and ESB), people questioned whether anyone other than a Jedi or Jedi trainee could even
use a sabre -- like, including turning it on -- if they didn't have The Force. Until Han cut open a tauntaun to shove Luke inside....