Well I personally thought this was a terrible episode. I found older Amy to be a very hostile person even to Rory. Now I know that she was on her own for 36 years, but she acts as if the Doctor and Rory just shot off by themselves on a joy ride without even trying to save her. She knows that isn't the case considering the countless times the Doctor has saved her. The young Amy also knows that the older Amy has been refusing to help. So is it really all the Doctor's fault? Not to mention if Rory and Amy find the Doctor so irresponsible in his actions and travels why do they continue to travel with him. They should just let him take them home and live out their lives. As far as the Doctor lying about saving both, he promised young Amy that he would save her, if it required a lie to get older Amy to help, then he did the right thing. To be honest, what other choice did he have. Terrible episode IMHO