Dear Steve,
I was not aware of your family situation and I hope your wife is doing well...
If I could afford it now, I'd send her my old VHS copies of the first 5 Star Trek movies and TOS -- half of TOS on VHS at any rate. I've got all I want on DVD and Blu ray and want to keep those... (Ironically, the way technology deteriorates, the VHS tapes may outlast the DVDs!) VHS, on the other hand, I'm trying to offload gradually, just keep keeping what's out-of-print for eventual digital archiving when I get around to it. It's easier to give VHS away than it is to try and sell it!
As for the Daedalus, I'm of mixed feelings about this design thinking that generally speaking what we get on screen is usually the best compromise the designer comes up with. And every good design is a compromise whether the designer admits it or not. Matt Jefferies seems to have been unusually honest and DID admit his designs were compromises. What I appreciated about his Enterprise designs was that he gave sound rationalizations for WHY he put down lines as he did.
That said, I've always had an easier time believing the Constitution Class USS Enterprise evolved from this Daedalus Class ship design rather than that "must be alterate reality, "Akira-prise" NX-Class mess. I know that design has its fans, too, but it sure doesn't fit into what I understand Star Trek was before the TNG producers started revising the timeline and overall continuity of "the Franchise."
(If only the problems TNG had ended with bad design choices... What's sunk that part of Trek in my opinion has been all the bad storytelling choices since the beginning of Season 5 of that show but I'll stop there.... This thread is about a design and I'm off track more than I should be now.)
For that matter, I don't accept the refit Constitution Class (can we please call this Enterprise Class like was originally planned?) as being evolved from the TOS Enterprise, either. The changes are just too radical... It's like going from a pre-World War II Spitfire prototype to the F-16A in one shot! There's no in-between design or gradual evolution like we saw with the US aircraft carrier designs over the decades between what we call Yorktown Class and late Nimitz/Ronald Reagan sub-class Carriers.
(Now, IF the TOS Enterprise had evolved into something closer to the Phase II Starship then THAT I could buy as being the same ship. A 100% or near 100% rebuild is still a new ship!)
I guess it helps that you have the same main designer for the ships of a shared universe as much as it does having an author for the same universe of books! Too many cooks and you get all this extraneous stuff that just doesn't connect well.
I'm sure your Daedalus kit will turn out just fine.
I admit I don't quite get all the enthusiasm for the ship design but it's Star Trek: TOS so what is there to get, period???!?!?? I should just stop being Spock already and go with the flow like Kirk did. The adventure and nuttiness eventually do get you to the destination!