Bruce's control of his anger has only RECENTLY risen to the level of Jen's control, simply because her control is so high to begin with because of her being a woman?I don't think she was doing that at all. She explained how she has been constantly suppressing her anger. He only recently has had to manage his emotions to the degree she does as a matter of survival. Bruce insisted his experience was going to be the same for her, she explained how it's not.
I think you're making my point for me, because...that's ridiculous. Sorry, it just is. Women indeed have unique stressors associated with their gender. I don't deny that. But consider that men do as well because of the societal roles and expectations imposed upon us. When I Iived with my family in South America and sketchy situations arose, or animals invaded our space and needed to be dealt with, the wives knew the husbands would step up and take care of it. We weren't trying to be chauvinistic or anything. We just saw that as our role, and to be honest, they did too. But these obligations to take care of certain types of situations, to always protect our families, bring their own emotional burdens and stress.
By the way, here were Jen's exact words:
"...so I'm an expert at controlling my anger because I do it INFINITELY MORE THAN YOU."
So no, she wasn't saying Bruce's experience just wasn't "going to be the same for her." She was saying that—just by virtue of being a woman—she had more expertise than Bruce at controlling her anger. Bruce's Iife experiences before and since becoming the Hulk, and their contributions to his emotions and control didn't factor in. He was a man and she was a woman. In her mind, that's all that matters and she wins as far as needing and being able to control her emotions.
If you don't see how that's an extreme overreach in logic...I don't know what else to say. Again, I WANT media to be honest in it's depictions of the struggles of certain groups. But exaggeration in doing so can actually work against efforts to encourage the necessary changes in attitudes.