after an exhaustingly long wait, I have just decided that i will never see my resin grips again, let alone the wood ones that were to come of it.
so i ordered another set of resin grips from Sid and i went ahead and finished them to apear like wood.
I used rough 230 grit sandpaper in linear strokes, then took the serrated portion of my pocketknife blade and drug it linearly down the grips to give them "grain".
the paint job, was not really painting at all, but rather rubbing, LOTS of rubbing. black, ivory and translucent brown paint, finished iwth a matte finish.
the result is actually better and more convincing than my first attempt and im very pleased with it.