I liked all three movies.
I don't understand the "monster movie" comments. Dinosaurs (especially carnivores) ARE monsters. And, yes, carnivores WILL try to kill and eat you, given the chance. I actually think they did some great stuff in 3 by making the raptors chasing NOT about simply eating, but about the egg. I also liked how the Rex rampage was related, not just to killing/eating, but about their offspring.
I really don't know that you're going to be able to bring back the sense of wonder from the original JP. The original came at a perfect time - thanks to digital technology, Spielberg was able to evoke the same sense of wonder that his characters were experiencing on the screen - no one has ever seen "real" dinosaurs like this before. Now digital technology is second nature and everybody has seen it - there's nothing new about seeing "breathing" dinosaurs.
We have ages of National Geographic saying pretty clearly, sure, carnivores eat meat and are opportunistic, but it has to pay off more than they give in the chase. Chasing humans never pays off what such large animals put into the chase. They don't just start chasing people the moment they see them.
In the first film, though they can run fast, the raptors are shown sneaking up on their prey and distracting them while another attacks from the sides.
The crap fest in the second one has the Rexes continue to leave their offspring alone to keep chasing people? I don't know many animals who do that. The raptors in that movie - at least in the book - where suffering from a form of rabies or brain disease that explained their erratic behavior - but sorry, to me none of them were really shown as animals, but rather movie monsters who chase you regardless.
What was interesting with the first one was the repercussions of the cloning. How to keep them alive. The ethical aspects of just leaving them to basically die. Their impact on the nature around them - as it wasn't just animals that were cloned, but plants as well (though, not really spelled out too much in the movie). Not some silly sci-fi cloning horrors of splicing things, but rather genetic contamination - spreading of illnesses the scientist may have accidentally brought back to life as well, and how normal illnesses are deadly and mutate when coming into contact with the cloned species that have no natural defense built up to fight it.
There is no wonder, really, in the other movies: it's just "YAWN, when do we get to the chase scenes already."
But, sadly... most just want the boring chase movie and not something clever.