I can't believe some people still go for the "if she didn't want that to happen, she shouldn't have dressed that way" excuse -_-
The point is, women do not have to pick between ALWAYS being flirty to any degree with everyone or NEVER being flirty with anyone to any degree.
We are individuals and you have to get to know us to know where the line is drawn... That is why respect is so key.
Help me ladies of the RPF you're my only hope!
Does anyone know where I can buy MAC chromacake landscape green? I don't have a pro account with MAC (wish I did) which is the only place to really buy the stuff. grumble grumble grumble I can't find it on ebay OR Amazon. Any help would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks!
The Girl that wants to defy gravity
I couldn't find any either when I did my Elphaba costume a few years ago... I ended up getting a similar shade of green from Snazaroo.
The amount of talent in this thread is overwhelming.
I've only recently started to dabble in cosplay this year.
I've always made my costumes for halloween, but I've only started to take it seriously recently.
I'm hoping to make an accurate costume from scratch for next years comic con.
Here's some of the costumes I've made in the past. Most of which were just for parties so unfortunately they're pretty crappy.
My Loki costume was a rush job and only took about 3 days to do with some paper mache and spray paint.
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This was my Luna Lovegood costume for a harry potter party to celebrate the release of Deathy Hallows Part 2.
This was my outfit for comic con this year. The cast of Red Dwarf were there so I decided to go with a classic Arnold Rimmer outfit.
And this was my Halloween costume from last year. Dvid Bowies Gareth from The Labyrinth.
So basically I'm here to learn, to get advice and some constructive criticism to help me become a better costume maker![]()
Hiya gals.
I was wondering if any of you have read this article from Geeks Are Sexy and what your thoughts are?
I say good for her for standing up for herself, but have any of you experienced things like this yourself?
The comments so far have been worth the read.
Hi, I'm new here, such a great forum! I am fairly new to cosplay, I did a Borg costume for Halloween last year and this year my husband and I are going to be Mystique and Gambit, I'm so psyched! Here's my Borg:
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This year's costumes are more ambitious (I'm doing movie version mystique, it's a surprisingly tricky costume, especially since I don't have any real help in applying it so I have to make sure I can do it all myself!) Love learning so much about makeup and prop making and such!
I can't help but wonder if there aren't some women playing along with this behavior... I mean, if every woman, regardless of what she was wearing and regardless of who was treating her as a sexual object, acted in offense and stood up for themselves, wouldn't guys in general get the message?
Maybe some women only seem to be playing along but are too passive or meek in their response and just wanting to get away from it or afraid of looking like a spoiled sport?
I mean, was that the first interview those guys conducted? If those guys got that sort of response before, they would not have been so shocked... something else is going on here.
Another thought is, maybe some women enjoy the attention from SOME guys because maybe they think those guys are cool or popular or attractive... so they play along because to them it is a flirting interaction. It is their choice to do so, they are getting something out of it too and not feeling used, per se.
Then maybe these other guys see that and think sexy women play along.
Maybe the real issue is that some men do not see women as individuals, they do not get that women play an equal part in any encounter that determines how they are treated.
And so they are shocked when a beautiful woman does not act with them like another beautiful woman did with someone else - wherever it is they saw it happening; real life, convention, movie, porn...
The point is, women do not have to pick between ALWAYS being flirty to any degree with everyone or NEVER being flirty with anyone to any degree.
We are individuals and you have to get to know us to know where the line is drawn... That is why respect is so key.
I have some really talented female clients who make their own costumes for cosplay conventions:
Ya Ya Han (super amazing)
Jessica Nigri (most famous for her Lollipop Chainsaw stuff)
Kat Sheridan (Wonderwoman and Poison Ivy)
Paris Sinclair
and
LeeAnna Vamp
D-Mentd Entertainment
You know what's cool? Someone recommended a costume for me to do earlier in this thread - Pam from Archer. I don't know if it was the same person, but someone posted a link to where I could get the dolphin puppet I would need for it. When that fell through due to the company not responding, I let her know so she didn't run into the same problem with that company. She also offered to send me the puppet I was looking for, in case I had trouble getting one on my own. I don't know if she wants me to mention her name, but thanks!
I have seen pictures of her with gray and blue dolphins, so these are options:
Aurora World 10" Dolphin Puppet
Fiesta Toys Blue Dolphin Body Puppet - 15 Inch
:lolThat's the funniest thing I've heard all day! Well said sir.I'm kind of jealous of female costumers cos they all look great. (I have Man Boobs, which just doesn't look the same in a corset!)