When I read the Red Wedding scene, I was so thoroughly disgusted; I threw the book down and swore I wouldn’t read any further. And I didn’t, for about a week or two, and then curiosity compelled me to continue, which I did grudgingly. I felt like I had been betrayed. But the more I thought about it, the more I realized that THAT is exactly what GRRM wanted you to feel and why it is such a unique story-telling perspective. And also why you tell people who have suffered a great loss to go on. That’s the way life works.
Still, I sort of feel like I’m in mourning, even knowing everything that happens after this.