It is waaay easier to cut them slack and be patient when they communicate accurately and in a timely manner . i.e. "We expect to ship on Oct 6th, but please treat that as a tentative date, as there are still some variables that are outside our control. If we end up not being able to meet the target date, we will provide a new estimate shortly thereafter."
I do have complete faith we will eventually get them or a refund. If we get them I expect to be "plenty happy." But there really isn't any reason that they can't be communicating with customers more clearly. I work a support job, dealing with very unhappy customers, most of whom are suffering large impacts to their businesses when I get involved, and 90% of my tickets is managing expectations . Keeping customers updated as to what progress towards a fix there is, notifying them of any delays , and setting expectations to appropriate time frames is often far more important than getting them a fix. They understand things break. They understand it takes time to fix them. But not communicating with them clearly... especially if its bad news, makes a bad situation worse every time.
A group Email sent on Monday explaining the situation - or at least setting a new expected ship date - would have done wonders. Maybe they run every communication via a PR/Legal dept. Maybe that email comes on Wednesday because of that. But even those contacting Tomy directly are not being given such a date.. and one can only presume that is because they really don't know when they will ship - not even well enough to say " within two weeks" or "before Dec 1st "or whatever they feel they can commit to. Hence we know there some large unknown at play. It could even be something very good, like - "we are investigating replacing every stand with one that displays the port side, or providing an option to do either side, and we are waiting on those bids and timeframes. We heard the complaints and understand that this is causing an unwanted delay, but felt this was the required to provide you with the best quality product." Its not so much the lack of shipping product that is the issue. It is the lack of communication .