Re: The RPF 2013 Halloween Costume Contest! VOTING NOW OPEN
If you only see a vote total that means you've already voted (or someone with your IP has already voted) in that category.
The reason most people see it as "poor form" isn't because you shouldn't vote for yourself, it's because you should vote for what you genuinely believe is the best costume. Going in to a voting situation already knowing who you're going to vote for without seeing the options isn't a good thing.
Therefore, if you sincerely believe yours is the best costume there then of course vote for yourself!
However if you're voting for yourself just because you want a higher vote count maybe reconsider. :thumbsup
Exactly :thumbsup
When I view the Women's gallery, I don't see a vote button under my pic, only my total. I assumed that meant I didn't have the option. I guess I just don't understand why you see it as poor form. I think I'd rather be told not to vote in my category.
If you only see a vote total that means you've already voted (or someone with your IP has already voted) in that category.
The reason most people see it as "poor form" isn't because you shouldn't vote for yourself, it's because you should vote for what you genuinely believe is the best costume. Going in to a voting situation already knowing who you're going to vote for without seeing the options isn't a good thing.
Therefore, if you sincerely believe yours is the best costume there then of course vote for yourself!
I had a professor who once told us, "If you don't value yourself enough to vote for you, how can you ever expect anyone else to?" A bit extreme maybe, and also possibly more politically focused than for a traditional contest.
Having said that though, I am definitely NOT voting for myself. I am choosing which costume I believe is the best, which is exactly what I hope everyone does. If you genuinely do believe yours is the best, I don't think you should be ashamed of voting for yourself however.
Exactly :thumbsup