Nope. Poe is the son of Rebel A-Wing pilot Shara Bey and Rebel SpecOps commando Kes Dameron. I've been privy to a lot of the BTS thinking since TFA and a few things... Poe was originally intended to die taking out the Starkiller, but they just love Oscar too much and changed that. Finn and Rey were always intended to have more of a sibling relationship than romantic. Both have a yearning for human connection from their respective backgrounds. I'm also a little miffed by the (re)introduction in TLJ, as not only were they standing next to each other at the end of TFA, but Rey gave Poe a very distinct "well,
hel-lo!" appraising look in that moment. Don't know how long passed before she left on the
Falcon to go find Luke. One of my ongoing grumps about Star Wars is non-obvious time jumps (How long was the trip from Tatooine to the
Death Star? How long was the
Falcon limping to Bespin? How long was Luke training on Dagobah?). Snoke had commanded Hux to bring Kylo to him. They'd had time to take the
Finalizer to wherever Snoke's command ship was, then, before heading to D'Qar to bombard the Resistance base. So I have a hard time thinking Rey couldn't find a
few minutes to introduce herself to Poe and tell him he better be there when she got back.
I have a feeling the Visual Dictionary pointing out he wears his mother's wedding ring on a chain around his neck "waiting for someone special to give it to" is a hint of him and Rey. We'll see. He did some maturing in TLJ (however hastily it was done), but is still kinda the Captain Jack Harkness of Star Wars. Some people pair Poe and Finn in their slash-fic. I feel like it's more Poe/anyone-interested.
His dearest loves so far seem to be flying and BB-8. I just hope that if they do go that route, he isn't "tamed" or "settles down", but instead in Rey finds a partner who can totally keep up with him. My mind jumps immediately to one of my favorite moments in Babylon 5. The season-2 episode "Gropos". One of the infantry people (Dodger) temporarily staying on the station and Security Chief Garibaldi get kinda close. At one point, friction between the ground-pounders and the station's fighter pilots boils over in a bar fight. Garibaldi and Dodger dispatch their current adversaries, bump into each other, both spin, poised to swing, look each other up and down in recognition, and push off each other back into the fray. If handled right, if neither character is diminished or relegated to a sidekick role, it could be good.
--Jonah