I'm gonna offer a piece of advice right now:
Stop. Following. The. News.
Seriously. All the pre-release hype...just unplug from it. don't let your expectations be set. Other than stuff like casting decisions, I keep myself in a media blackout for these films. It doesn't always help me enjoy the film, but at least I don't think "Oh man! This is gonna be AWESOME!" and then end up disappointed when it wasn't. I maintain that folks should approach these films with equal measures of skepticism and optimism. It's fine to hope it's good, but recognize that the world is simply...different...from how it was in the days of the OT and its immediate aftermath. The Star Wars of 2015 will not be the Star Wars of 1980, nor even the Star Wars of 2005. This will be something else entirely, with the same name and some of the same characters.
JJ's probably the best guy to bring these films to the big screen other than, maybe, Joss Whedon, but even so, it will not be the same as it was in the good ol' days.
So, my advice is to unplug or pick and choose what you tune into, don't obsessively focus on every little detail in advance, and just see the film with as fresh a set of eyes as you can.