Alrighty... Update! I used Blackout white fabric (typically used for curtains to block light) as a layer under the sheer Fabric. Where the fiber optic bundles connect to the LED is very distracting. You can see a lot of light from the bundles and at the connection point. So adding this blackout fabric now solves that problem. I also got my High Power LEDs in. I've attached heat sink to them and although they get hot. They are never too hot for me to touch so I think they will be fine for my costume. I checked the combustible temperature for the fabrics I'm using and the lights would have to get 400 degrees and they would stop working far before they would get that hot. So I'm comfortable using them for this project. I've hooked up two of them to half the skirt and I'm super happy!
I'm working on hooking up the two other lights to the skirt. I've decided to use the super bright bulbs (not the high power) on the bodice. Only the center of the bodice and the piping will be lighting up on the top part of the dress.
FYI if you plan on using High power with Arduino I have to use two separate battery packs. I'm using really large lipo batteries I ordered from China. They are single cell 11000mAh batteries and because they were manufactured to my order all at the same time (they are LG brand and have date stickers to ensure this) I'm confortable connecting them to create a 2cell 22000mAh battery back. I used JST connector. The batteries each have protection boards on them and I'm using the adafruit Lipo usb charger with these (it too has protection board) I've not had any issues charging or using them. So I have two 22000mAh battery packs. One is connected to a adafruit powerboster1000 to power the 2560 aurdino, speakers, and the adafruit FX soundboard. Using the second battery back (with no Voltage Powerbooster) to power the actual LEDs. The LEDS draw too much current for the arduino so I'm using N-channel power MOSFET - 30V / 60A batterys hook strait to LEDS through the mosfets and the ardrino connects to the mosfets as well. With low positive power hits the mosfit it tells it to connect the circuit the other batteries turn on the LED light. Since I'm using the PWM pins I can even change color ect. Remember Electronics is new to me is you may or may not understand this but I'm all 100% self taught with the help of youtube, adafruit live wearable electronics show where you can ask questions and the arduino forum. This all so fascinating to me. It takes planning an research but anyone can do this!
****I used aliexpress for the Lipo Batteries. It was was less than $13 Per battery and free shipping. Took about 2 months to get maybe alittle longer but it was also during Chinese new year where everything shuts down for a week. This made sense for me cause I also got 2 for the Belle dress. I wanted to make sure if we wanted the dresses on ALL night that the battery could handle this with out needing to be recharged. It also made more sense to me to do it this way because they arent that heavy VS the metal lithium ion 18650 batteries. Which are TONs of fakes and so many aren't really protected and if they exploid medal shards can fly... Lipo batteries expand and can eventually catch fire but they don't explode the same way and its a lot easier to tell when something wrong cause the expand like a balloon first. Lastly the cost of regular batteries they don't hold as much capacity and a lot heavier. I can also reuse these for future costumes as log as i'm careful and take care of them. I did LOTS of research before deciding on a power source!