As a father of three boys I definitely hear you- LOL!
One thing I will say about welding is that my rule of thumb is that if you can see light through a joint it's not a good enough fit to weld. Having really good miters makes a huge difference regarding the difficulty of welding a joint, especially when TIG welding. MIG can fill a much larger gap as can brass brazing but brazing thin sheet steel can be difficult due to warping since it has such a large heat affected zone. I think the thinnest steel I've brass brazed is .4mm thick. Silver brazing is a lot lower temp but it's expensive and you have to have a very tight fit, just like TIG- the silver brazing alloys flow like water. You can braze Aluminum too, provided you have the right brazing rod for your Aluminum alloy. A torch like a Meco Midget is perfect for brazing Aluminum. Never should have given mine away... I'm personally much better with a torch than with a MIG or TIG.
The big advantage of welding a project like this is that it isn't structural. It's not like building a race car or a highly loaded structure so as long as your welds hold things together during your post weld forming processes you're good to go. It just has to look good!