so now that we have to correct box, I would like to point out the screws and nuts in this pic.
I think this is pos. proof.
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There seem to be a good amount of people (myself included) that believe there is likely a third male plug out there that has more accurate metal release clips than either the HRS or Honda plugs, so I don't know if we can quite say that we've found the 100% accurate male clip, but it's definitely at least close enough to make me happy.
Now ... is it possible that since you've found a third manufacturer for the female piece, that they also manufactured a male connector, and that if we could find that, it may have the accurate release clamp?
What's up with that circuit board on the leads in your photo? Something you mocked up, or did that come off of the monitor you took the female piece from?