While I don't agree on the notion that neither is better than the other, I do accept that there are differences between the two and each one has the capacity to tell one heck of a story. I would never want them to be 100% alike because they can both present Star Trek in different ways. But here's the thing. Star Trek on TV will always give the franchise what made it so unique, and that is variety. The exploration of ideas. With a TV Trek, you could get a whole story dedicated to a minor character and actually get to know them outside of what their role on the ship is. With movie Trek, it's always going to be about the two main characters with the minor characters getting nothing more than a moment in the spotlight. With TV Trek, you could have stories that are dedicated to either action, drama, tragedy, romance, suspense, and even comedic goofiness. With JJ's movies, it's all about the action with a little bit of everything in an attempt to capture everything. With TV Trek, you could have story arcs that span seasons and character arcs where we see our heroes grow and develop in various ways that you couldn't possibly cram into a single movie.
Star Trek will be back when it's being renewed for additional seasons, not another movie sequel every three to four years. And if we get both, that's when we'll know that Star Trek is really big again.
I never implied one was better then the other. I also suggested that if you were not around and culturally aware of TREK post TOS and pre TMP, you have a very different, and I would say less informed, view of how this franchise has become. Post TOS we had nothing except reruns. Then STAR WARS happened. When ST_TMP came out, despite it's flaws, it was a huge success. TWOK made Trek immortal. From 1979-1986 all we had was film Trek and without it's success, there never would have been anymore on TV. We are seeing a reboot of that era right now. Well crafted and exciting film Trek is reinvigorating the franchise. Perhaps TV Trek will follow once again as it has in the past. But your argument/complaint about what film Trek lacks is precisely why film Trek is so crucial to maintaining this franchise.