Analyzer hits it on the 'head': everything is a guestimate for 'vessels' that have no verifyable scaling element present to connect them to the full size, physical world. Obviously, exact precision is not possible if the only element is a human figure, unless the specific individual's height is known which helps with accuracy. And for designs that have no visible scaling element (like the Tantive V), then everything is up for grabs...
Fortunately, some of the designs incorporate elements that are depicted full size. R2-D2 is one such 'yardstick'. Given the 'droid is part of the X & Y Wing designs, the size and hence scale of the filming models can be determined exactly based on the known dimensions of the real "character".
In the case of the Slave 1, it can be scaled accurately using the composite scene where Han (in carbonite) is being loaded with Boba Fett standing on the ramp, by using the known height of the actor (Boba, not Han...) The side view of the filming miniature in the loading scene is perfect for solving the problem independently of any contrived 'wiki' values.
A third case exists for the B-Wing where a model figure of known scale is used in the filming miniature, setting the scale of the filming model by default. As long as the model pilot and the full size scenes are in reasonable agreement (as the B-Wing scenes seem to be), this is a workable solution. The B-Wing filming model is then 1/32 scale.
The A-Wing is a favorite 'bone of contention' for scale. The primary issue is that the 'human scale' element is obviously larger in the model than in the live action scenes that show the pilots against the cockpit's aft bulkhead giving an impression the cockpit is roomier than the model suggests. In fact, the model cockpit seems to lack full accomodation for the pilot's limbs! This is a case of 'what looks right' depends on which standard is used for determination since the two (live or model) are in obvious disagreement. Since I like 1/48 scale, I prefer the size of the old MPC A-Wing to the Bandai "1/72" kit, which seems too 'big' for 1/72 and too small for 1/48... but it is so beautiful!
Lastly, consider the situation where there is no visible scaling element but there is a full size 'set' to which the model can be compared. Obviously, the Millennium Falcon falls into this category. However, there are a range of sets depicting various portions of the "ship" and some cannot be considered 'full size' but rather 'theatrical' in nature. The only viable possibility is using the cockpit for comparison, though that is fraught with inaccuracy because of the changes in the set size between the Ep's IV and V interior sets and similar differences with the external sets. So, determining a size of the 'real' craft must come from making a series of logical assumptions and functional decisions (how big was that door compared to the actors, how wide was the set's ramp, what was the size of the circular window on the cockpit cone based on the interior view, etc.) The result is the well known problem with the MF's interior not fitting within the exterior. But since the cockpit 'capsule' is basically the only element visible on the model that also is seen (at least from the inside) in the movie scenes, we must then start there and then do our 'best' for the interior (if such is attempted...!)
In the end, scale will continue to be subjective for most of the Star Wars machines (and anything that only actually exists as a model) while the rest can present with various levels of accuracy. If it matters to the modeler, taking an 'engineering approach' to the question of scale is the best strategy. Just be careful to 'show your work' and don't let the fun become lost.
Regards, Robert