Can't say I disagree with a single point you've made. This point in particular is very true and one show that I think has proven that characters can be somewhat happy AND continue to be challenged without killing off the love interest is Chuck. Even after Chuck and Sarah got together, the writers managed to keep them together without it hurting the story or the ratings (as far as I'm aware). That show handles emotional development a far sight better than Whedon in my opinion at least based on everything I've seen from Whedon so far.
You know, I haven't watched any of that show, but I may have to check it out, based on this. Whedon's main argument for why he consistently brings together and then breaks up (usually through extremely painful events) couples is that it's necessary for drama. And yet, the man is married! You'd figure that he'd recognize there's PLENTY of drama to be found WITHIN a relationship that continues, even one that continues successfully, to keep things from getting stale. Anyway, thanks for the tip!
I thought when Joss killed Buffy's mom, it was very powerfully done and very effective. Then he did it AGAIN with Tara... and I thought "alright, whatever..." it at least gave a reason for Willow to go evil. Then he did it again with both Book AND Wash in Serenity AND Topher's girlfriend in Dollhouse AND yet again with Felicia Day's character in Dr. Horrible. And come to think of it, he did it on Angel too - he killed off Amy Acker's character right after her and Wesley hooked up and were on the verge of happiness. I think there was another instance on Angel as well... We should make a definitive list of Joss Whedon's pointless character deaths
It's not just the deaths. Let's review:
WARNING!!!! HERE THERE BE SPOILERS!!!!!
- Xander and Cordy --> broken up by a stray piece of rebar, even though Cordy lived (but it could've gone either way).
- Xander and Willow --> broken up by Cordy catching them and impaling herself on said rebar.
- Willow and Oz --> broken up by him deciding that he was too dangerous to be around her.
- Willow and Tara --> broken up by a stray 9mm round.
- Giles and Ms. Calendar --> broken up by Evil Angel snapping her neck like a dry twig.
- Spike and Dru --> broken up by her leaving him for a slime demon. (hey, I had to include a little levity here)
- Buffy and Angel --> broken up by: (1) him experiencing happiness and losing his soul while she lost her virginity to him, (2) her impaling him and sending him to hell as soon as he got his soul back, (3) him deciding that he needed to remain a vampire and giving up his humanity (in that one episode of Angel), etc., etc., etc.
- Buffy and Riley --> broken up by Riley being too insecure to handle being weaker than Buffy, and Buffy being too stubborn to let him in.
- Buffy and Spike --> broken up by it being a REALLY BAD IDEA in the first place, followed by Spike sacrificing himself. (Not sure what happened after that, if anything.)
- Xander and Anya --> broken up by: (1) Xander getting cold feet at the wedding, and (2) Anya getting bisected in the final battle.
- Glenn and Cordy --> broken up by him sacrificing himself.
- Cordy and Angel --> broken up by (1) her ascending to semi-godhood, and (2) dying.
- Cordy and Connor --> a really messed up "relationship", but broken up by her death.
- Angel and Darla --> broken up by him gaining a soul and leaving her, followed by her sacrificing herself after Connor is born.
- Fred and Gunn --> broken up by...aw hell, I don't remember anymore. Let's just say "irreconcilable differences." No deaths this time around.
- Fred and Wesley --> broken up by her becoming a demon or something.
And that's just the Buffyverse. I haven't even touched Dollhouse (which i haven't seen) or Dr. Horrible.
Now, in general, Whedon USUALLY pays off his character deaths by having it move the story along and develop other characters. The death of Buffy's mom was particularly well handled. The deaths in Serenity were poorly handled, but some of that was down to the fact that they didn't have time to pay them off (I still think Wash's death was done poorly, though, even within the context of the film). But yeah, are we noticing a PATTERN here?!
You'd think at some point Joss would figure out that he can't keep doing it and it remain a powerful storytelling element. It's powerful once. Maybe twice but not after all of those episodes and particularly when most of the same audience are the ones watching his shows (i.e. Buffy fans and Browncoats.)
Yep.
What I find most ironic about it all is that with Buffy, Whedon's goal was to turn a genre convention (tiny blonde thing walks into an alley and is eaten by a monster or gutted by a masked lunatic) on its head....and in the process has managed to create his very own two cliches applicable solely to his works:
1.) Place your bets on who's gonna die, and when. Although if someone says "I'm just so happy!" or anything like it, chances are their number's up. (I didn't even make a list of THOSE characters...like Buffy's mom, Jonathan, etc.) Actually, I suppose this is true in horror movies as well, which is doubly ironic, considering he wanted to flip those very conventions.
2.) If you see a happy couple, even a dysfunctional happy couple, THEY WILL BE BROKEN UP, and usually by violent death (see also, #1).
Whedon's a good writer, but I find this element of his work to be irritating in the extreme. It's become old hat, really, like an M. Night Shyamalan movie with a "twist." You may not know what the "twist" will be, but you know there will be one. Likewise, you may not know who's gonna die, but you know main characters WILL die eventually. It's just a matter of time (and possibly not being canceled prematurely). Same with the romances. They WILL break up, it's just a question of when and how. And maybe which one of the two (or more) will die to make it happen.
P.S. In the new Avengers movie, my bet is that Hawkeye or Mockingbird will die right after Hawkeye decides to confess his love to her. I'm guessing a stray electrical cable in the Avengers mansion smacks him and fries him.