IMO irc is too much hassle, requires external programs, relies on others' servers, and people can get off on power trips/takeovers/floods/etc. More work for the mods, and you'd have to have ops online all the time to manage it (more staff!). I know if it was completely separate I would never check it.
We don't take donations any longer but rely on our ads to cover costs. We appreciate your willingness to donate though! Just bear with us a bit and as soon as we have some $$$ and verify everything functions we will see about getting the chat room in place!
OM, can you give me a link for what you are talking about specifically? I am not familiar with any chat software that is a part of vB.
Nothing else should be happening at this point. We are just working on setting it up.