I'm going to beg to differ with the feminist crap here, and I'm a girl.
Yes, Tolkien didn't write too many women into his works, but he did have a good amount, and those he created were beautiful, strong and wise. Lemme sum up:
Galadriel: Wise, immortal, fair; and to add a bad ass. Not only did she stand up for what she believed in, she was all-powerful. She took down the walls of Dol Guldor single handedly, and she was the queen of her realm, above her husband Celeborn.
Éowyn: Another beautiful bad ass. Strong, emotionally perplexing yet still interesting. She had all the inner turmoils of a normal women, yet she was stronger and braver than most of the men surrounding her.
Luthien: The most beautiful elf to ever been born. She was graceful, but not so delicate. One of her best friends was A GIANT WOLF! She turned herself into a vampire in order to save her loved one, Beren. She seduced and battled the first dark lord Morgoth.
Arwen: Not a heroine in the battle sense, but she stands as a beacon of hope to her kind and her loved ones. She never falters in believing in Aragorn's destiny, and because of that, she turns tides and makes the ultimate sacrifice to save the race of men. If it weren't for her, Aragorn would have no heir. Think about it.
Lobeila Sackville-Baggins: Talk about strong-willed and hard-headed! She never let up until she got what she wanted. On top of that, during the Scouring of the Shire, she was the strongest hobbit around.
Here is a pretty good article about Middle-Earth females:
The Women of Middle Earth (Great Article!)
Let us not forget that Tolkien himself was a hopeless romantic. Not only did he create believable, heart breaking and adventurous love stories within his stories, but he loved his wife and cherished her until their end.
Also, let us not forget that LotR revolves around a war. Even in todays sense of war, women aren't the high percentile in combat; it's men. And while we have a ton of amazingly brave women out there, sometimes it just ends up that way. Why? Well we don't live in Amazonia for one...other than that I don't have the answers. War is usually a man's start; as it is in these stories. It also shows the greedy side of the male sex. What are the dwarves after in The Hobbit?? Territory and treasure. What are the males in LotR after? Territory and treasure. What are men after in our world??? Exactly.
It's not that women don't essentially want these things...we just are the far wiser sex and tend to keep out of these silly, meaningless battles

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