bothanspy
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If Jessica Biel/Jessica Alba/Tricia Helfer ect ect ect walked in and said shed be mine forever if only id get rid of my collection, id tell her to walk...... sorry, if you can be YOU then wahts the point of being with someone ya know?
But why can't you be you without all the junk? A person isn't defined by their possessions. And if they are, then maybe there's some self-esteem issues going on there.
There's a big difference between changing your personality and not being a serious fire hazzard.
I understand collecting, trust me. But I also understand that a collection is easier to enjoy if you can actually appreciate it. How the heck can you appreciate something that you can't even fully comprehend because it's so overwhelming. 5 pieces get far more attention than 500 pieces.
-Fred
Just be careful! Too many hits from the bed against the wall and those toys are comin' down!
-Matt
Ok on that SAME token.... your exactly right.... the "junk" does not define there person THEREFORE anyone (man or woman) who would judge a person by their "junk" is equally as superficial right?
Yes, but that wasn't my point. My point has nothing to do with other people. My point is that unless you're a clinical pack rat, your stuff/junk/collection shouldn't be defining your core personality.
Most (not all) of the time, a person who collects items from a particular genre, is a fan. People who collect obsessively from either one or a dozen different genres are either clinical pack rats or are trying to fill an emotional void by buying everything and anything and surrounding themselves with it.
You can love star wars/ star trek/needle point/ whatever. But when you have everything ever made, maybe you need to step back and really think about why you're collecting it.
I have about 3 dozen props, but they're all displayed in an orderly, museum-like fashion so that they can be admired and appreciated. All of my props have intrinsic value because they're either made from original found items, like the original prop, or they were hand crafted by myself or a very talented artist.
When you start tacking thousands of dolls and action figures from a dozen different movies to the walls, are you doing for the true love of the movie or is there something deeper at work?
So, back to my original point, I can love star wars and indiana jones without my props. My props aren't defining my personality. I'd still be the same person with or without my props. If my wife (or a girlfriend of a few years) came in and said, "I love you, but I don't really like having this stuff around", I wouldn't have that big of a problem putting them away. Why? Because they're not who I am. I enjoy what they represent, but I can still enjoy all those things in my head without the clutter. And I'm still the same person I was when they were hanging on the wall.
-Fred
There was a special on the sci-fi channel just before EP I came out. They showed an old guy, with a collection of star wars stuff WAY bigger then mine. He said "it's just good fun". He had a family, and everything, and he seemed to be a perfectly normal guy. He just enjoyed collecting.
I have a great big brain, and I can be in love with more then one series at a time. I am not a "completest" I collect only the stuff I love, and in many cases, stuff I've wanted since I was a kid. Some days I'm in a star wars mood, other a star trek mood, etc. I could never pick on show or movie, and I could never pick just one item for each.
I'm nothing like my apartment would suggest either. I don't go around with a pocket protector, and talk sci-fi, to strangers. I play it very close to the vest. I watch the shows, and movie I like, I collect the stuff I love, and I get my "geek on" on site like this. the rest of the time I'm pretty normal, and cultured.
I feel, in life, if you can find something you like to do, that doesn't hurt anyone else, or yourself, you should do it. life is too short, to go around worrying about what other people think about you.
If it turns out I am a "Packrate", and an "over grown child" at least I'm a pretty happy one, and if it's not broke don't fix it.
If you can't hand a collection like mine, don't have one.
Steve collects everything that LFL has officially sanctioned from toys to high end collectibles to happy meal boxes.