Solo4114
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It's both, Dan. Poor story-telling, driven by Hollywood's liberal agenda. You know it's true.
The Wook
I don't think we're gonna see eye-to-eye on this.
It's both, Dan. Poor story-telling, driven by Hollywood's liberal agenda. You know it's true.
The Wook
Not to mention, I think that maybe for YOU Rey is "not believable" "not relatable" but you certainly don't speak for anyone else when you say that. My experience with her is quite different. So are alot of others' experiences. I'm not sure you really believe that she's "not relatable" because you'd mentioned before that you liked many things about her character. How can that be if you didn't relate to her at all? On some level?
I just wonder if your statement isn't too extreme.. too all inclusive.
I don't think we're gonna see eye-to-eye on this.
Well duh! lol Why it's imperative that we do, is beyond me.
The thing is, though, we're closer than you think. We're both for women's rights and equality. You think the filmmakers advance that cause with Rey's character. And I think the filmmakers harm that cause with Rey's character--because she's just not relatable, believable.
Rey, sadly, is emblematic of today's "instantgratification" society, in that she doesn't have to struggle for anything. It sends a horrible message to young girls. And Rey is emblematic of the not-so-fringe element in the women's rights movement to not be satisfied with making women equal to men, but to make them superior to men. I suppose it's an understandable instinct, given the years of societal persecution women have suffered--but nonetheless, it is counter productive to the cause. Rey, in her own limited way, hurts the cause. And with a few tweaks, it didn't have to be that way. Rey could've been a terrific role model...to the extent that movie characters can be role models.
So don't you see, Dan? We both want the same thing. We just have different perspectives on how to achieve it. And that's okay.
The Wook
The Wook : You seem to be issuing an exit speech with each post, and then come back to belabor points that were more than apparent pages, and pages, and pages ago. If you want to put this to rest, just quit posting these excuses. Go on to other issues other than trying to get everyone to agree by saying you don't care if they agree! Just how many ways can you say, "Let's agree to disagree", huh?
Just trying to provide some context on my posts, about who I am and what I believe in. I don't care to persuade members here to loathe the film. I just didn't want an opinion to persist, undefended, that I am a misogynist, or even a sexist--a couple of highly charged words--because the reality is nothing of the sort.
The Wook
Well, you did say to Dan "You know it's true" so it would seem you want him to agree with you. In regard to your thoughts on Rey having a negative impact in young girls you couldn't be more wrong. Rey has become a hero to both young girls and boys, look at the outcry of complaints of a lack of Rey toys in the market. She has resonated in a powerful and positive way.
Well duh! lol Why it's imperative that we do, is beyond me.
The thing is, though, we're closer than you think. We're both for women's rights and equality. You think the filmmakers advance that cause with Rey's character. And I think the filmmakers harm that cause with Rey's character--because she's just not relatable, believable.
Rey, sadly, is emblematic of today's "instant gratification" society, in that she doesn't have to struggle for anything. It sends a horrible message to young girls. And Rey is emblematic of the not-so-fringe element in the women's rights movement to not be satisfied with making women equal to men, but to make them superior to men. I suppose it's an understandable instinct, given the years of societal persecution women have suffered--but nonetheless, it is counter productive to the cause. Rey, in her own limited way, hurts the cause. And with a few tweaks, it didn't have to be that way. Rey could've been a terrific role model...to the extent that movie characters can be role models.
The Wook
As has been pointed out, it's your comment that had a hint, dusting in my words, of misogyny, not specifically you.
Oh, c'mon, Bryan, it's simply human nature that we want people to agree with us. My point is that I came here to vent, not to persuade. When people reply to my venting, sure, sometimes I'm replying back. Crikey, that's what this site is all about. But believe me, I have been around long enough to know that you, Dan, Kristen, Gizmo, and all the rest who disagree with me on TFA, are intractable in your views. As am I. Maybe very minor points, we could budge an inch or so--but not with the major elements of this movie that we either love or loathe.
You're right, Rey is a role model for girls and boys. That's the problem. She's a bad role model.
The Wook
Well, thank you. I'm glad to know you don't think I'm a misogynist.
The Wook
You're right, Rey is a role model for girls and boys. That's the problem. She's a bad role model.
The Wook
Well, it's not an issue of being intractable it's just no matter how I flip around the film in my head I still see something special even with the negative issues raised. I hear what you and others are saying I just don't find it compelling. Regarding Rey, would you walk up to a 9 year old girl playing with her Rey action figure and give her your reasons why she is a poor role model? Maybe it's more important that girl have her hero.
She's not just good to push a political agenda. She's good because of something in her history, something that makes her special, but we don't know what that is...yet.
Regarding Rey, would you walk up to a 9 year old girl playing with her Rey action figure and give her your reasons why she is a poor role model? Maybe it's more important that girl have her hero.
"Good", I could handle. FRACKING AMAZING AND BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE, is what I have an issue with.
But to your point Dan, you are forgetting here that Rey is a fictional character, made up by real people. Her backstory or frontstory that we'll discover in future films is still all fictional, made up by real people. Whatever Rey is, was, or becomes, it is from the minds (agendas) of real people.
The Wook
ps~loved the Xander reference! lol
When I think about it, I don't see Rey as all that different from Buffy...