Steve doesn't owe me any money, but I do know him and have nothing but contempt for him based on his behavior. So what I've read here comes as no surprise to me.
Here's a Steve story:
I went to a prop party at his house in rural PA many years ago, a pretty long drive. Many of his friends were there, including some who practically worshipped him and who shall remain nameless.
Anyhoo, we all went to a restaurant, might've been an Outback, and while we waited outside for a table to become available, Steve gathered us all together in a little group. I didn't notice it immediately, but there was an elderly black couple sitting on a bench not five feet away from us. In a moment I would notice them, and realize that Steve knew perfectly well they were there.
Then he said to us, and not at all in a whisper, mind you:
"Little white children become angels when they die. What do little black children become?"
THAT was when the elderly black couple caught my attention, and I became absolutely horrified by what was unfolding around me and felt helpless to do anything about it. Frankly, I'm deeply embarrassed to admit now that I didn't immediately shout him down and shame him into silence, but I had less... well, less of everything back then.
I will not repeat the punchline. Not here, not anywhere, not ever. Bad enough I still hear it in my head so many years later. To say it was obscene is an insult to obscenity.
All I could manage was a very embarrassed look at the elderly black couple, and to say, "I think I'm going to Hell just for hearing that joke." And I walked away, feeling horrified and ashamed that I'd been even an unwitting part of something so vile.
I mentioned it later to one of his worshippers, who replied,
"Steve's not a racist. You just don't get him."
Uh-huh.
And this guy was one of the ones who'd laughed at the joke.
Along with all the rest of them. All of them, people whom Steve had maneuvered into the vicinity of an elderly black couple so he could tell the worst racist joke I've ever heard, just to get off on having them laugh at it in front of that poor couple. What a disgusting display of utter narcissism.
Beware of Steve Dymszo. He is not your friend. He's not anyone's friend but his own. The people he keeps around are just the useful idiots who fawn on him.
Think carefully about everything said here by his victims. He does not belong in the hobby or the business. Nor any other.
I've been carrying the burden of that incident all these years, and only ever told my wife and one very close friend. I truly hope I'm not making a mistake by speaking out, but seeing this thread over the last couple of months really brought it back to the surface, and I'm happy to finally get it off my chest.