Did you guys only get episode 1? I was able to watch the first two.
There's lots of little things that bug the supernerd in me-- humans aren't strong enough to do a nerve pinch, the arrowhead insignia wasn't used by Starfleet as a whole until after Kirk's mission, I don't love the blocky Lego-aesthetic of Star Fleet...
But I can let all that go and actually thought it was really cool. Some scenes were clunkier than others, but it felt like Trek, which I was not expecting.
Really, my biggest hang up, and I am trying to force it away, is what I've been saying all along. There's no need for this to be a prequel and it's the main thing making it seem like a misstep. As near as I can tell, Sarek is the only thing tying it to that era.
There is no reason he couldn't have just been Vulcan benefactor to human girl. There's nothing making it specific to Sarek. If this were say, the 26th century, well past either established universes, everything suddenly becomes fine. The tech, the look-- most everything save for newly designed Klingons, but we've weathered that before. Klingons are always in-fighting, there's nothing to say this set up wouldn't work in a far future. They fragmented again and need to reunite.
But really, other than that, I was digging it.