Yep, that was the one.
I'm in the same camp with ghosts as I am with UFOs:
I'm like Fox Mulder - I want to believe.
Although I'm not on a website actively debunking ghost videos like I used to do with UFOs...
I have a skeptical mind - I'm always trying to rationalize and explain things.
That's what I did on the UFO investigation forum that I was a member of for years.
Found explanations for mundane things that people thought were UFOs.
Problem was, it was an open forum - any knuckle-dragger could join - so for every three of us offering explanations, there were 300 shouting us down, calling us government shills, accusing us of being part of the cover-up. It was ridiculous. I eventually lost my temper with the fruit-loops and got banned.
The paranormal field is much the same way, I'm sure. On the one hand is people who want to believe so badly that every dust mote is an orb, and on the other is people who fake stuff to antagonize or profit off the loons. Somewhere in the middle is a tiny minority of people who take it seriously, but their voices are lost in the din and never heard.
I watch the "Ghost Adventures" guys. And I'll continue watching them until I catch them faking something.
Heck, for all I know everything they do is fake. But if it is, they're good at it, because I haven't caught them yet.
Good post here. I'm similar in that I want to believe, but I'm also extremely skeptical.
Debunking UFOs that people have seen is difficult because, really, almost anything that someone sees in the sky at night, to them, can be unidentified...and it's a flying object, so it can be easy for someone to see a UFO...when in fact anyone that has some experience around aircraft and whatnot would easily be able to point out exactly what it is instantly.
I personally have one experience with seeing a UFO. A bit of back story...I've worked at an airport for the last 14+ years. I've been around and seen aircraft ranging from everyday passenger jets, to Osprey VTOLs, to WWII era German aircraft...basically, I've seen it all. One night when I was helping a friend move, we loaded up the last few things in his truck and left the house we were moving stuff out of. When we got outside I noticed three lights in that classic triangle shape moving VERY slowly across the sky. It seemed like they were only a few hundred feet off the ground, and there was no sound at all. It was WAY too quiet to be any kind of conventional jet, especially if it was as high as it seemed it was...it should have been much, much louder. My friend looked up and noticed it, too. We both watched it in silence while it moved a ways across the sky, then all of the sudden it sped off extremely quickly and was gone.
Now, if you knew this friend and I you'd know that it takes an AWFUL lot to leave us both speechless, to the point of not even joking around or being jerks to each other...but for the 45 minute drive to the new place, we were both just dead silent...it was awkward. When we finally got to the driveway of the new place, I said "So, are we just going to pretend that we didn't see something in the sky back there?" He said "I kinda wish we hadn't...I'm pretty freaked out right now." We then discussed what we had both seen, and both of us had the same description of what we saw.
Here's the thing, though...every single aspect of this encounter I can logically come up with ways to debunk it. It was night, they were lights...it's entirely possible we saw several meteors that just happened to be coming down at the same time moving in the same general way. Again, it was dark, so our THINKING that whatever it was was flying only a few hundred feet off the ground could have been completely, totally off...it could have been multiple aircraft thousands of feet in the air, which would also explain why it wasn't making any sounds. It seeming to fly very slowly then suddenly moving very quickly could easily have been the angle we were looking at, and the fact that we were kind of "caught in the moment" when we first saw it...one of those moments when time seems to just kind of stand still that we all have from time to time.
Like I said, I've worked in an airport for a long time now, and what I saw that night certainly didn't seem like any kind of conventional aircraft...however, I also wouldn't definitively say that it was some kind of alien craft that was flying over us that night. I guess TECHNICALLY it was a UFO, because we couldn't identify it, but that doesn't mean that it was some kind of alien spacecraft!!!!
In a separate story related to the subjects at hand, when I was 22 my roomie and I moved into an old chair factory that had been turned into apartments. My roommate had grown up across the river from this factory, and as such had heard a LOT of stories about it when he was young...things about it being haunted, about a fire in the building that killed most of the workers, things like that. So when we were looking into getting an apartment there, he asked the manager if there were any good ghost stories. She gave us a few, and we laughed it off.
The night we were moving in, a guy that lived downstairs from us came up and introduced himself. We were moving into a two story townhouse on the second and third floor of the building. This guy I would basically describe as your typical "movie" hippie...long hair, seemed stoned, really laid back...cool guy. He told us some stuff about himself, how he liked to play guitar and if he ever got too loud just stomp on the floor a few times and he'd stop. As he was letting us get back to moving, he stopped and turned around and just really nonchalantly said "By the way, the ghost that lives in your apartment's name is Pete." We were like "Oh, okay...thanks for letting us know!!!"
A few weeks go by...the cat we have acts kinda weird...always looking at the spiral staircase in the place like he's watching someone going up and down it...but we figure it's just a cat being a cat and a new place, so he just needs some time to get used to it.
One night about a month in we are watching TV, and it sounds JUST LIKE there was someone pacing back in forth in one of the bedrooms upstairs. It sounded so much like it that my roomie asked me if my girlfriend was over and had been sleeping, and I said I was going to ask you the same thing. Neither of the women were there, though. This went on for a few minutes, and then my roommate smiles and says "Watch this." He then just kind of hollers "KNOCK IT OFF, PETE!!! WE'RE TRYING TO WATCH TV!!!!"
I swear on all that I've ever loved that the sounds crossed the room one more time...it sounded like to the spot that my bed was in the room...and then just stopped.
I don't know what it was...ghost? Probably not, there's probably something very normal that explains it...there were often times raccoons on top of the building that made a lot of noise, so I figure it was probably that and just coincidence that it stopped when my roomie yelled.
However...that doesn't change the fact that we got out of that apartment that evening as quickly as we possibly could. I don't think I've ever seen two grown men move faster than we did that evening, and we went and did a LOT of stuff (Denny's, a really late night movie, then the bar for a few hours) before deciding we were safe to return. :lol