Okay so after taking a whole day of work to figure this out I think I have just about finished my little Frankenstein project of the arm. First off
detenten tried backing over with the car no luck :cry and @ Abelugo I only wish I had a fraction of any of those tools, but I do have a mechanic friend who I will be paying a visit to this weekend (there is still hope). Great suggestions guys but vice grips are probably my least favorite tool right now lol. Though other than the vice grip piece on the thumb this project is pretty much complete!!!
There are still wire and plugs that will be attached though bolt a nuts that are attached to the shoulder piece so if it looks a little naked sorry.
As for the identifying parts especially on the ligaments, the ones I used as followed
1: Vacuum line (which is the weaved metallic looking wire)
2: A Wrench (size depends on the wearer) attached to aluminum pole using electrical and thick metal wire
3: Gas charged lift support, its used for trunks (and I would suggest going to a mechanic to adjust the size of the inner tube and outer tube). don't do what I did with a pic axe and nearly blow your face off, did the trick but super dangerous!!!
4: various electrical wires.
5: and the dial looking thing on her elbow piece is a tire pressure gauge, ($2 at auto zone)
These are the pieces I had most trouble identifying personally, if you go to a junkyard they should have all this stuff, probably weathered as well. Also make sure to ask for a gas charged lift support with out the compressed gas! If you cant find any of it there head straight to auto zone, stuff is pretty cheap there.
Let me know what you guys think, hope you enjoy!