Youre right, and I do agree with you, it is a drag. But its also a drag to out right attack someone, or say they have a disorder, or condescendingly mock them, if that particular person bothers you THAT much to where you have to say something? Put em on ignore. I just dont like the grabbing of the pitch forks and ganging up on someone. I get it, some people are more passionate about certain things than others. But to be so douchey about it...bothers me. Would those people be like that in real life, or are they hiding behind the veil of the internet?
But I totally get what youre saying. Maybe the people that wanted to bash the movie should have started a GB16 Bashing thread, then the people that wanted to do so could talk among themselves, but its too late for that.
I've heard this a lot in this thread... and if I'm being looked at as "attacking" Neil, for what was said, I do apologize...
Early on in the orignal GB discussion, I did say he was dragging down the thread, not really attacking, I think I said he needed to relax.
I DID write at one point "You sir, are drunk" in regards to him saying "
sounds like a typical paul feig disaster." (Which was nonsense since he hasn't had "disasters" - just movies Neil may not have liked) I would have thought it would would be read in the light manner it was meant. As I obviously didn't really think he was drunk posting. I also followed up with a jokey fake conversation. No actual ill will intended. And he didn't seem to take offense... just responded normally.
But I believe I was put on ignore when he mocked a girl who liked the flick:
"I wonder if this person went in with an open mind..
Probably not.
Bet no one calls her crazy. or drunk."
So apparently he WAS offended... but I replied with
"I'll wait to see if she goes on about how great it is for the better part of the next year finding every article printed to back it up and speaking in absolute hyperbole and passing opinion as fact.
"
Which again, more ribbing... thus the smiley face. But now I'm on ignore for it.
No big deal, but unfortunate - He may have seen some things he agrees with on my overall assesment, as I agreed with a lot of his on Star Trek Beyond.
My "humor" can be very sarcastic or wink wink nudge nudge, so sorry if it was taken the wrong way or as bullying.
For example, my Sister in law is mad at me for my sense of humor. We were over her my brother in laws place and for pretty much the entire time I Was there, I was wrestling with my 6 year old nephew - good times. As we were leaving, I was holding him upside down and swinging him around. She see's this and says "Hey you can take him home with you if you want."
I immediately stopped... slowly walked him over to the couch (hanging upside down), lowered him softly, put the blanket over him, slowly walked back, pretending to dust myself off, paused in front of her and said
"Hard pass"
Everyone laughed. But then I got home and my brother in law called saying "So why does Ellery hate our kid??!?!"
Whaaat?