"I am glad that you will not run off because of a few "bad apples" on this board"
Hmmmm.... wonder who those would be considered to be.
There are quite a few people here who do not know what went on in the past and given the conflicting information, may still be wondering about who is in the right and wrong. You can see who fired the shots here, so that is a beginning. I lost $ 4000 dollars, had a an insiders view with people at Lucas, so that's another point.
But to put that all aside, I have given this advice to my kids and especially my daughter for a few years.
If you ever have a question as to the character of a person, don't pay attention to what they say. This works with boyfriends, politicians, etc.
People say quite a bit, many times falsely to better their own position. When it becomes a question of judging who they are, look at what they have done and what they do. Forget the words for the moment and you will always see the true person through their works.
If they have lost that trust, then you have to measure carefully what they say, because that is all you can go on at that point.
Now if you lost $ 4000 in a business deal, would you want everyone to consider you the bad apple for getting ripped off?
Or a person with a questionable past person comes back and you find yourself personally have to defend yourself from accusations, are you the bad apple?
So, consider what has been posted by Jim as well as his defenders. Look at each sides accomplishments and decide appropriately. Look who tries to open doors and which side keep lobbing the insults under the guise of taking the high road.
Judge appropriately.
I posted this earlier, I will post it again:
I don't know if he really is interested in change or amends, but always willing to listen to someone who tries to. I just don't think he is there at this point. But I am always willing to leave the door open to be proven otherwise.
Hard to ask forgiveness for yourself if you cannot do so with others. But there is also a time when you have to dust your feet off and walk away.
I dusted off my feet long ago on this. If Jim wants to walk back in, I will give him the grace of trying to redeem himself properly. As for the others trying to give him support; give him the proper support to move forward, and that is not by justifying his earlier actions.