On video that was taken at my Dad's 50th birthday bash in '97, my Mom is talking to Brie's parents, and mentions that one day their daughter is going to be a big actress. They really did look proud, especially her Dad. He sacrificed a lot to try and make her dream come true.
Brie and her sister were at my house all the time when they were young (I was 15 when Brie was born), and I do mean all the time. While our folks visited, I'd put on movies for the girls, and more than a few times it'd be an Indiana Jones movie, as Indy is an obsession I've had for a very long time. I was even supposed to go to one of Brie's birthday parties dressed in my Indy gear, though it didn't happen, mainly because I was just too shy to put on any kind of show I guess. In '99, I remember them visiting from SoCal. Brie and her Dad's girfriend's son sat and watched me play "Indiana Jones and the Infernal Machine" on our brand new PC. We were just blown away.
Her and I talked a lot about movies. For a kid, she was very interested in the movie-making process. We were always checking out whatever new LaserDisc I had gotten. I remember switching back and forth between the VHS of "Temple of Doom" and the LaserDisc, for Brie, her sister, and their Mom; "Look at the difference in quality!".
In '96-'97, I was taking some studio production classes at the local jc. Her parents came to me with a bunch of footage of Brie singing, dancing, dressing up in a bunch of different outfits, and asked if I could edit it down into a little 5 minute or so video that they could send it down to some agencies. I was glad to do it, and apparently somebody down there liked it. Pretty soon she was in some skits on "The Tonight Show".
In '98, my little brother died. It was shortly after that, that Brie's mom called and told my Dad that she was leaving Brie's Dad.
She did become friends with Jake Lloyd, and before "The Phantom Menace" came out, she had him autograph that issue of Vanity Fair and gave it to me. I still have it.
In 2004, our families (- Brie and her sister's Mom) went and saw "Sleepover" at a theater in Elk Grove. Walking out, someone who had been in the theater recognized her and freaked out. It was a little surreal.
So yes, we were close. The last time I saw her was 2007 or so (yes, her and her Dad were fine). I guess her story needed a villain, so her Dad became that villain. She didn't live in squalor and survive off of McDonald's and top ramen. But everyone loves a rags-to-riches story, so they just made one up. In trying to make her Dad out to be a monster, she became one. Her sister and her Dad are very close and always have been. He is not a bad person or deadbeat dad, and he has been hounded for being as such.
As for her Dad and mine, they aren't really close anymore. The negativity kind of led to a depression of sorts and their friendship faded. So to see her propped up as a role model for little girls, is just sad, when I know where she came from, and all the support and cheerleaders she had here in Sacramento, the people and places she's essentially disowned.