The level at which you can't hear criticism is the highest level your craft will ever go.
******, my own mother told me my music sucked when I was 7. God love her or I'd still be writing like a 7-year old.
_Mike
Well said, Mike. This thread has deviated quite a bit from the topic, but the discussion of critique is an interesting one.
I write fiction, and once a month I attend a group read where we critique each other's work. To someone just starting to attend the group, it feels insulting to hear someone tear into your hard work and express their opinion. But those beginning attendees have not learned to seperate themselves from the work.
Sometimes a good point is made, sometimes a remark is stupid or uneducated. I still get something out of it. One time out of ten someone will point out something I've never considered. Or they point out a logistical mistake in my writing that I've overlooked.
Now, when the comments are stupid, I still graciously accept them.
Seperate the work from the artist. Consider the negative criticism as seriously as the positive, try to step back and seperate your own ego from the work and ask yourself if the person has a point. If you don't agree, fine. But maybe, just maybe, you if they do have a point, listening may help improve your level of work.
And yes, critics should be diplomatic and use words like, "I think," and "you may want to consider . . ."
Kudos to anyone who has the guts to lay their work out for everyone to see on this board.