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Personally, I hate the look of metallic black. It's far too "silvery" and really doesn't match the look of the webs in the movie. Matte black is definitely the way to go, in my opinion. That's what I'm using on my suit, and I think it's a pretty good match.
The TASM and Miles Morales prints that spidermanwarehouse2099 is selling are actually my patterns. I've asked him to take them down, but he hasn't. Also, the TASM2 print he's selling is Orhadar's. I don't know about the rest of them, but I assume they are stolen patterns as well.
Here's a Spider-Man fitness thread with a lot of great techniques if you're looking to get in Spidey shape: http://www.therpf.com/f78/tasm-fitness-thread-get-your-spidey-physique-tips-exercise-nutrition-here-155661/
Keep in mind that the "measuring from the center of the eyes to the point of the belt method" is what people used to resize Raimi patterns. The belt point on the TASM2 suit doesn't go nearly as far down as it does the Raimi suit, so the measurements will be completely different.