I'm hoping that the bruce wayne we see on the show won't get acquainted with anybody else personally other than Gordon maybe, and only because of the murder of his parents. I sure as hell hope they don't go the smallville way with bruce, he should not do anything batmanesque other than start training maybe, and start thinking about the batman. That way it could fit with Batfleck somehow.
But it would definitely not work indeed if they go the smallville road.
At least Arrow time frame and story would work, so I'm still hoping they at least connect this to the movie universe.